CHILDLESSNESS
Being born a human is blessing, and able to reproduce
is double blessing. In our society to a woman, unable to bear
a child is an unbearable suffering. And suffering knows no barrier,
no caste or creed no religion or region, that is living suffering,
the suffering of human race. Without children, loss of fertility
may the loss of women's hope for future. Infertility/childlessness
causes, great personal suffering and distress. Most of the agony
and misery is hidden from the public gaze, and that is why this
topic is still not talked about openly. The reasons for the lack
of public support for the childless couple include the dismal
ignorance about the causes of infertility and its treatment. Infertile
couples are socially isolated and emotionally very vulnerable.
More and more couple is showing up at fertility clinics these
days,searching for answers, hope and eventual parenthood. Hakeem
Hashmi, a prominent unani physician once said that despite the
enormous growth in population, it should be noted that humans
are not very efficient at producing babies. All most all the couples
expect to have their own babies, once they get married. But getting
pregnant is like a game of odds, or game of luck. It is impossible
to predict when an individual couple will succeed in achieving
pregnancy. There are many reasons for this, including the fact
that some eggs do not fertilize and some of the fertilized eggs
do not grow well in the early developmental stage. However over
a period of one year the chance of achieving a successful pregnancy
is between 80% and 90% in other words. 7 out of 8 couples will
be on their way to becoming parents within a year. These are the
normal "fertile" couples and the rest are labeled as "infertile".
And if you have been having sexual intercourse two or three times
a week, at about the time of ovulation without any form of birth
control for a year or more and have not become pregnant, you meet
the definition of being "infertile". Couples who have never had
a child are said to have "primary infertility", those women who
have become pregnant at least once, but are unable to conceive
again said to have "secondary infertility" The foremost unani
practitioner Hakeem Hashmi describes that the chances of achieving
pregnancy for a couple in a given cycle will be depend upon many
factors, and the most important ones are: -
- The age of the women as the biological clock ticks on the
number of eggs and their quality starts decreasing.
- Frequency of intercourse, couples who have intercourse less
frequently have diminished chance of conceiving
- "Trying time" that is how long the couples have been trying
to get pregnant. This is an important concept. The longer a
couple has been trying to conceive without success the lesser
their chances of getting pregnant without medical help.
- The presence of fertility problems
These are certain condition that warrant seeing
a doctor/ physician sooner:
- Periods occurring at three week (or less) intervals.
- Periods not occurring for longer than three months.
- Irregular periods.
- A history of pelvic infection.
- Two or more miscarriages.
- Women over the age of 35 time is now running out.
- Man who have prostate infections Man whose testes are not
felt in the scrotum.
- Men with a low sperm count
According to Hakeem Hashmi, if infertile couples
had 300 years in which to breed, most wives would get pregnant
with out any treatment at all. Of course, time is limited, so
the odds need to be improved. And this is where medical treatment
comes in. In the past infertility was blamed wholely and solely
on the women. Perhaps this was because the male psyche equated
fertility with virility and viewed failure to father a child with
shame. However, research today shows that 40% infertility emanates
directly from the man. The commonest reason for this is what modern
medicine/allopathy "idiopathic" which simply means we do not know.
In allopathy this is one on the reasons why the diagnosis of male
infertility is so frustrating for both patients and doctors of
modern medicines. In modern medicine medical treatment for male
infertility does not have a high success rate and has unpleasant
side effects. This simply reflects the modern doctor's ignorance
about male infertility. They know very little about what causes
it, and their knowledge about how to treat it is even more pitiable.
Unexplained infertility simply means the doctors do not know why
the couple is infertile. It is a confession of ignorance of modern
medicine. But the time tested, age-old traditional medical system
'unani' has evolved very effective treatment for infertility in
male & female.Hakeem Hashmi with his elaborate research came up
with a very effective unani treatment for infertility. Hakeem
Hashmi's treatment consists of rare herbs, rasayans, bhasms and
minerals. This treatment is prescribed according to the individual
requirements after careful analaization of every condition of
each patient. For the last 70 years lots of people were treated
with 100% positive result, not only in India but also all over
the globe. According to Hakeem Hashmi, on the onset of the new
millennium, the modern medicine is losing relevance, and unani
medicine is the only hope for the childless couple. Even though
you may be embarrassed and feel that you are the only ones in
the world facing this problem, you should not forget that you
are not alone. Many couple experience infertility and many can
be helped.
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